I think it’s definitely easier if you give them almost like a notice period that you will help now but not next time. But also, if you are financing your son you need to have control of his money. If/when he’s serious he’ll want you to do that. When my son has been getting clean in the past, he’d transferred most of his salary to me and I would transfer it back gradually. Payday is a massive trigger. I hope that your son can keep his job.l, things get worse when they are home all day.
I feel for you with work being stressful, I wonder if we should do less pressured jobs while going through this. I’m on the point of resigning from mine, I manage people and a lot of cash and just can’t give it what it needs. Some days I just want to hide.
I hope things improve for all of us. At least the sun is shining and we aren’t in lockdown.
I hope you enjoy your week off, try and do something nice for yourself.