sorry to read that jem but lets hope he is starting to realise that only he can get himself out of this.
Remind him that he was capable of having all those good things before and he can again.
My son is doing really well hes still clean and has started his course 3 weeks ago, which he is really positive and focussed about and so i hope it stays that way.
I cant beleive how things have turned around and so there is hope for everyone. Four mnths ago we were in a very dark place.
Im still struggling with my long covid and yesterday diagnosed with skin cancer so Im thankful that at least I dont have to stress too much about my son, as this feels like a year my health needs me to be on top of.
Kate like jem i think of you.
I hope everyone else is doing ok, stay strong and look after yourselves.