I know but he wants to get an assessment for ADHD but needs to be clean. So maybe that’s why he gets a medical and declared clean – I don’t know.
He has given her permission to talk to me but I just dont want to have a conversation in case I get angry with her. He said I could go to the clinic with him and meet her when he gets his assessment. That might be easier for me, I will see how I feel.
I think his addiction is related to friendships and not fitting in – and as you say I never offered him that first line – his friends did.
I’m not going to argue anymore with him – maybe with his girlfriend and once he moves away he can see things more clearly. I’m not perfect but he makes me sound like a witch – god knows what he’s told his friends and partner about me.