Everything you say takes me back, there is no easy way out. It doesn’t matter what we do we can’t help them. Addiction is so evil it not only takes our loved ones but hurts the rest of the family. I know people say it’s their choice but I think by the time they are addicted their choices are limited. I look back now and rip myself apart with what ifs. What is i had cut him out of my life…..like professionals told me to……no I would never have forgiven myself. You are doing right love him, tell him you love him but protect yourself. It’s so easy to be drawn into their chaos. The one thing I know is my son knew he was loved even when I had to try to be hard when he made his choices.
