Hi Februarymarie I’m really sorry that you’ve had all of this to deal with and your trip to your daughter ruined. I honestly don’t know what to say but it’s not your son talking, but his addiction. As a mum it’s so hard for us to ignore their messages and pleas and so many days that should be a bit of relief for us are spoiled. It’s terrifying when your child threatens suicide. I wish there was something I could say. I’ve been reading some of the literature on the Fam-anon about being there to support but letting them fight their own battle. I don’t have the solution but am trying to not let myself be continually tipped over by my son’s addiction. I hope that things are calmer for you now xxx
