Hey everyone I think you’re right it’s in the air, we’ve had the same. We’ve had the “I need £1000” I was adamant we weren’t going to give it to him. He’s been vile. You all know the score, remorseful, sad don’t want to be like this then he hits you with it. The suicide threats, you won’t help your son to help him beat it, horrible, vile accusations blaming us. Saying we’d rather sit on our money than help him.
His dad nearly put one on him last night but they ware you down so much you give in. It’s every month We’ve been paying his rent for the last 10 mths. If you remember he had a seizure and broke 2 vertebrae in his back but even that hasn’t stopped him. He’s on the sick till November. Last weekend we had a family 40th birthday there was something edgy about him which I get as he hadn’t socialised for over a Year then and I knew he was going to do something and he did it on the Sunday and so it seems for 3 days after that. Dad walks the dogs for him but he didn’t want him at his flat said he’s not welcome. Now he’s here as it’s weekend to have his son, I can’t look at him. Right now I hate him for what he’s doing to us but mores what he’s done to himself. He’s just a horrible lying drug addict who won’t get help from anywhere or move home so we don’t have to pay his rent. I want it all to stop . I want him to spend the night on a park bench. I want him to get better ???? Feeling everyone’s pain and sending much love xx