Hi all
How’s everyone doing, been a long time since posted here
Things were slightly better for a bit but have boiled over yet again now …but with control and manipulation really ramped up now that I’m setting very clear boundaries.
He still swings from abstinence for a bit , saying and doing all the right things to suggest he finally understands that he is an addict and cannot ever touch cocaine ever again…to then using again and saying he needs to be able to let off steam and that it’s just a one off , etc etc , but of course it’s never a one off ….yet every.time I have to listen to all this , that he can stop, and that I am such a terrible person who doesn’t understand and then twists it all round back on me … It hurts so much.
I do really think this time I’ve been backed so far into a corner the only option is to leave …for my own sanity and maybe for his…if I don’t go nothing changes and his behaviour continues.