I’m so sorry to hear that you are going through this again Bump, the pressure put on families because of the behaviour caused by their addiction is unbelievable.
We went through it again last weekend because our son had spent his rent money. What he was calling us was absolutely disgusting because we refused to give him any money. It was like he was possessed with what was coming out of his mouth. It was so hurtful but it wasn’t him it was the cocaine talking. We were that close to disowning him, he took his keys back he went back to his flat but then the phone calls started and the texts and he finally managed to manipulate us again and as soon as we gave in it was like the devil left him. I don’t know how much more we can take of this. I’ve lost respect for him and what he’s done to us his parents is diabolical. He told me today he’s 10 days clean but I’m just waiting for the next time. We’re on edge every time we see him.
I really hope your son comes home soon Bump and I sincerely hope your relationship with your partner doesn’t end. You don’t deserve this none of us do. We are all respectable families holding on to the hope that they will beat this awful curse.
Stay strong everyone xx