So sorry reading these threads.
My son relapsed and had been sober for 4 weeks but weve had nothing but abuse his me talk state means every hr we dont know what we are goi g to get but mostly its volatile and aggression.
My husband and my relationship has been tested to its limit and last week my husband and me I guess said we are going to divorce..I’ve been in bits and last night my son went put and hasnt come back which is a very bad sign as this is his usual pattern when he falls off the wagon.
It’s just more stress we do t need.
Ifonly I know it’s sad that you feel like you are throwing away 28 years but I met with a girlfriend yesterday to talk about my marriage and whilst I’ve been hurting that I’ve wasted years with him she put a positive slant on it and that is rather than you saying your throwing away 28 years try looking at it as you are not throwing away anymore if your life.
The next 28 years can be positive for you with lots of wonderful possibilities.
If my son comes back in a state I’m going to have to think about kicking him out. I’m bot going to let him ruin another xmas and want my 9 year old to remember er xmas as it shld be.