Hi Bump, I’m sorry to read your post about you and your husband. Perhaps it isn’t all because of your addicted son, but the I’m sure the stress of it doesn’t help. I hope that you and your husband can have some clarity to be sure if it’s what’s best. It must hard for everyone, and I think of your 9 year old son who is impacted by it all. Perhaps some counseling will help him to navigate all the things going on around him.
I’ll keep your whole family in my prayers. ????????