My son came back from Uni on the 18th December “clean for four months” he said.
He came home he was meeting his dealer every day – buying KET. Asking for his savings, bunged up bleary eyed awake all night.
I ignored it because we had a wedding, and a huge xmas lunch booked with extended family.
The day his girlfriend arrived – yesterday – I had found a ket straw in the living room. Again I ignored it, she believes everything he says and things I am an evil terrible mentally ill mother (comes with having an addict as a son, love).
As soon as she walked in the house he started flexing his muscles telling me off for buying them food!! And to stay out of their lives (in my house) I was furious.
I waited until they were ready to leave and then gave her the straw and said “there you go” he’s been relapsing for the last week and you call me a bitch. He screamed at me I’m a liar a terrible mother and need therapy, he then tried to kick the door in. I was terrified. When they left I bolted and locked the door but somehow he managed to kick it in and they went to bed. I left the house this morning, he says I am manipulative, vile, i bring out the worst in him I need therapy. He’s Ieft to move in with his girlfriend before demanding I apologise and go for therapy. Seriously how as my year ended like this. How can his girlfriend be so stupid!! I cant even tell him i love him anymore – has has STOLEN that from me.