Hi Vic152UH,
Welcome to the Forum, where as you can see there are lots of Mums with Sons trying to cope with addiction. It’s a great place to come for advice and rant if you want too, it has been a great help to myself just being able to put your thoughts down at times does wonders.
I think you have to have boundaries or at least try too for yourself and the rest of the family. The problem is I don’t think they have any respect for our feelings at all and think they can do what they want.
Addiction is hard for everyone involved in it, I pray that one day we will all get out of this viscous circle.
Take care and keep in touch on here.
Dx