Hi Jem
It’s not been continual he has had a wife and a 10 year relationship with another woman so they have had the brunt of it
And been there for his crazy antics
I could write a book
Far too much to go into but I guess you can imagine
I’ve been involved more in the last year the last one chucked him out she was much younger and realized he was never going to change
She did try bless her she thought she would make the difference
I didn’t liked her but never blamed her
He did some awful things
And she was young enough to start again
He has always been a nightmare
It’s the usual story selfish no empathy
Unkind sneaky untruthful
It’s an addicts life story
My other son is a kind loving man with a steady job and three teenage sons
Is it nature or nurture
I think is in the addicts make up
I can’t let him fall or fail I know it’s what I should do but can’t
I’m 69 now I’ve had breast cancer
5 years ago
But I’m still here cleaning up his shit
Literally
I’m tired but on I go
If you can find the strength to let your son
Hit rock bottom my advise is to do it
Even though I can’t
Take care and time for yourself
Thank you for replying
Joanie x