I can relate to all that it really is so draining especially when they are still in the home.
My so is in week 2 of rehab so.im gradually starting to relax a bit more but it does take a while to not be in a constant state of stress and I’m having chest pain as in my head I’m still thinking of worse case scenarios.
My son also 23..welljust shy..going to university definitely was what threw him into the .minefield of drink and drugs and having issues like adhd etc definitely is a factor.
So.much needs to he done.
My son cant cope with life Bill’s getting and keeping a job.
Last time I spoke to hi. Was to tell him he had a chesty fine for jumping train fare. He also owes the rehab money and hes only been there 2 weeks.. we are beyond stressed with helping his money situation. We just cant do it anymore.
Keep strong people.x