Hi buzz 25
I understand you are nervous about posting on here
But we are all in the same boat searching for answers to help addict we love
I never thought I would know anyone with a cocaine addiction
My granddaughter had been with this man for 14 years 3 married to him
The absolute love of her life
A nicer guy you couldn’t wish for
Both had good jobs and they had a baby last year
He was sleeping in the spare room while the baby was tiny and ordering Coke to be delivered to the house and started an affair with a fellow cocaine user
She chucked him out when the baby was 8 months old
Still wanting the best for him and blind to the seriousness of the situation she has just given him half their savings which was over £3000
Because he wanted to clear some debts
I have fallen out with her and feel lost and angry that she can’t see what he wants this money for
I’m dealing with her alcoholic father which is a whole different story
So I agree with Emjay it’s hell
Try to get out if you can
X Joanie