Hi jb3 I’m in the same position but with my husband of 24 years x I know and feel exactly what you are saying , I’ve learnt so much about addiction over these last few months and lived the heartbreak of it as have us all endure along side , my days are consumed with constant thoughts of him and what he’s doing etc it’s very easy for others to jump in and tell you how they see fit to deal with it because they arnt the ones living it nor do they love the addict x I have 2 young boys too and I get when people say you need to look after yourself first but I just feel I can’t , anyway just wanted to say I know how you feel and there is some wonderful mothers on here like yourself , really hope your sons confidence improves and he can start to believe in his own self worth , much love lovely lady x
