Hi Bump
Maybe you could join your children is something away from school
People can be so smug with their “perfect” lives and definitely judgy
I’m sick of family and friends telling what I should do about my son
They have no idea of the stress we are under
I have said many times I don’t like my son sober or drunk and it’s true I wouldnt choose to have him in my life if he wasn’t my son
He’s just basically not a nice person he has no empathy
I offered to go down this bank holiday
And he point blank said he didn’t want be there
Considering we had been with him for best part of 4 months at the beginning of the year
I thought this was pretty cold
It will be a danger point for him as he won’t be working and probably won’t see anyone
I only have his best interests at heart
My partner is away playing golf I said I didn’t want to be on my own
He said oh get his brother to come round !
Anyway I’ve told him if there’s any drinking I won’t be happy
Not that he cares
So I’ve taking my youngest grandson out to the cinema and Pizza Hut
It’s Groundhog Day I want to go on holiday but I’m stuck in this trap with him calling all the shots
He is manipulative and I can’t break the cycle
I glad you shared your thoughts on this forum it really does help
Try to do something with your children this bank holiday if you can
Take care
And don’t give up
Well I know that isn’t an option because we don’t
Love and hugs Joanie x x