Yes, this is what addiction does- it destroys. My son is 40 and really hasn’t even begun to live a functioning life because he’s been he’s been an alcoholic for so long. He also doesn’t have friends and the majority of his family except me, don’t talk to him. Can I just share with you that it is because it’s very, very difficult for family members to ride this rollercoaster. I tell my son he has to respect what each family member can handle.
I believe this is why so many of the moms here have suggested some sort of support program. I can’t seem to get my son to do it. But, then you’d have people who truly know your struggles and can celebrate your victories even if they’re small. They understand.
Based on my son, at 8 days sober, your body is trying hard to get to normal and there is depression, fatigue and not feeling well. Keep pushing on. My son is now about 3 months sober right now and he’s more and more himself all the time. I have no idea if he’ll stay this course.
You mustn’t give up. You matter.