Hi Jennifer68
I’m so sorry you are going through this terrible time
Your son is still young his body may recover in between the drinking and the drugs
It’s such a hard fight to get any help
But I would urge you to try maybe his gp
Or if he could get into rehab
I know the anxiety so well and not being able to plan anything it’s a nightmare
We had a 2 night stay in London last October my son was suppose to go to his daughters
Who is going through a bad break up and has a small baby
He let us all down I couldn’t enjoy one minute of that time for worrying about him and my granddaughter
He’s 49 and has been drinking most of his adult life
But since November he’s been sober apart from one slip he ended up in hospital in April
But he’s back on the wagon again now
I have been sick of people telling me to leave him to get on with it and have a life myself
They have no idea how it is to be constantly worried and stressed
I love him and couldn’t let him destroy himself
Please try to get some help for you at least
Love and hugs
Joanie