Make him leave cut the phone off and make him leave. It’s OK to do that. It’s OK not to want to deal with his addiction anymore. You are not bad parents for doing this. Every single day he spends under your roof enables his addiction. Here is just one link that tells you what to do, they all say the same thing. It’s hard but you have to look after yourselves first and if he won’t stop then you are left with no choice and if it has gone on for years you shouldn’t have to live like this. X
