Hi Penny M
Sorry but that wouldn’t work. I sent him a long txt to tell him how I felt and what he was doing to me, and how he was causing me anxiety. He rang me up shouting saying it was my fault I had anxiety I do it to myself. He’s not as bad as I make him out to be. And that I am a sad lonely old woman who no one likes and says even your own kids don’t want to talk to you. I have told him they don’t speak to me because of him. And he says why I havent done anything its what you tell them. Nothing is his fault its all mine according to him. I see your point it is easier to write it down but tried and failed. I am going to work at the one step at a time and stick to no money as that is my down fall. I keep giving in