Hi sorry taken so long to reply to your posts but been hectic week and sometimes you have to read through the comments and take them all in slowly.
My son does work but has had so many jobs some last a couple weeks some couple months depending on the employer cause he probably only works 2 or 3 days out of 5 day working week depending on what state he gets in that week and I know I am enabling him but you ladies are much stronger than me over the years friends family and professionals have told me if something happens to him if I put him out my home it’s not my fault but I simply can’t bring myself to take that risk I have lost so many family members in my life I can’t lose my son so maybe I have no right to even complain about the life I live as I choose to put up with it.
11 years I have lived this way it’s kind of normal now sadly cause it really isn’t normal!
But you go to work everyday as if nothing wrong when you may of been up Al night dealing with a person off their head either drunk or drugged up you deal with drug dealers at the door I really wish I could put him out I have been close but always back down I admire you all who have taken that decision maybe one day I will have strength to do it but thanks for your advice it’s such a help having this forum x