Thank you for thinking of me. How old is your son. I would not say enabling is the right thing it’s just I kept trying and hoping this time he would pull it round. The people who took his money were never going to let him go. My fear was homelessness and what he would then do. My son always knew I loved him. Whatever I did I could not help him. I do know you need to take care of yourself as they drag us down with them. I don’t think there’s a right or wrong way to help them they have to be strong enough and want their lives back. I miss my son every minute of every day but I know he felt he could not get away from this lifestyle and those awful people. X
