Hi Imaginedragon
I think the main reason they won’t go to hospital is fear of not being able to get the drugs/drink they want
My son had a hip replacement
I looked after him until he was able to manage on his own
I went home he got so drunk he fell down the stairs and injured himself
He wouldn’t go back to the hospital
Until I said he might get sepsis
He had broken it and pushed the replacement out off line
And he had pneumonia
He’s fit and well now which is at least annoying
It’s so hard dealing with all the drama
He’s sober now and doing well
I hope you can get him to the hospital
Look after your self
X x