Fed up mom please please stop being a ‘mum’ he is an adult now, he isn’t a child any longer. He is emotionally blackmailing you. It’s up to him whether or not he attends a job interview. You have to look after yourself now. He either sinks or swims, but if you are going to be his arm bands then he is never going to do either. Remember he is all grown up, you are no longer responsible for his choices. He has to do this for himself. If you continue like this not only are you going to go downhill fast, he is going to control your life forever and nothing will change. As hard as it is and I do know, it’s time to call it out, it doesn’t make you a bad person, you can’t save an addict only they can do that. X
