Hi James, I’m sorry to hear of your struggles, I am currently in the position your partner has been in, my husband left me and his 2 kids 10 weeks ago, he was a brilliant father & husband , his behaviour the last 6/7 months has been off, I felt something was wrong but had no idea it was cocaine , he was happy to let me believe he didn’t love me , I couldn’t understand as we where so close , best friends, it has all come to light now he has been using for about 4 years , I think heavy from June , & off the rails from nov/ dec, he won’t admit nothing denies everything, he knows I know now so has admitted he takes it the same as everyone else, I knew he took it the odd time , I had no idea until this last 6 weeks the havoc this stuff does to peoples life , can I ask you if he will ever realise about his family? & he is so cold, he is completely different, I really hope you your partner and daughter can be a family again???? talking to a few people I think I understand how hard it is to go off, be proud of yourself for that keep your daughter in your head every day, cos I bet she loves her daddy ???????? he told me he does love me but I’m better off without him, I was starting to ask questions about money & the long periods in the bathroom, my friends have a suspicion but didn’t want to bring it up, he was always complaining he was sick , I thought he was genuinely sick and maybe a bit run down , ????
