It is a shame and doesn’t make sense how someone you love can go so cold and lack so much empathy. From all I’ve seen they def all play the victim, and seem to develop narcissistic tendancies, I’m not sure whether the drug turns them into this or if it’s in them and just made worse. It seems a good therapy writing to them and I think even if you don’t give it to them re reading it reminds you how bad things are/ were.
This site helps knowing we are not alone, but is is sad knowing others are also going through it, and I guess we are all doing the same
Thank you and yes I’m going to take the opportunity to be free for myself and my children, as know long term it’s for the best, Christmas is going to be awful, but next year is a new start.
It probably sounds silly but I almost feel in mourning for my husband, our old life, my hopes and dreams for our future are all gone. I hope things improve for you and your husband gets help before it’s too late xx