Hi Lozzy80
So sorry to hear about your dad, it’s awful, I pray that he will get better and send lots of love to you and your family, it’s hard to be the rock when you don’t have anyone to look after you. I’m here to listen anytime. I hate that the stuff it makes them sleepy then angry and then back to using again to make them feel better.
i have not enjoyed Christmas Day, it started off ok, I cooked breakfast then we opened presents, I then cooked lunch which we both ate and then he disappeared for the rest of the day, I text him to come and sit with me to watch tv in the evening he came downstairs made a fuss about food, then couldn’t watch tv had to go…… wtf.
I spent Boxing Day with family which I really enjoyed then came back to miserable OH, I tried to get him to have food with me but nope, he was suffering. So again spending the evening on my own.
I’ve given him an ultimatum now for the new year, I hope this gives him the push he needs. So let’s see, if at anytime this does t work then I’m off, I have to look after myself, my health needs to be put first as I don’t like these anxiety attacks I’m having.
I wish you all the best. Look after yourself xx