Reply To: Goodbye letter to my husband

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navy
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I agree with them thinking they can do it with a couple of books and online therapy once a week it’s not that easy. They need dedicated therapy everyday for at least a month and then once a week for life to keep them on track this stuff is evil and will lure them back in like a flick of a switch.

my husband is going through a tough time at the moment and I know he had used but had not opened up to me. He says he committed to giving up. Does that mean he will continue to use but not as frequently and when he does he will go back to trying again. I don’t know if I can live like that waiting wondering seeing that he had used again rowing about it feeling anxious not sleeping it’s a cycle of disasters.

i have been going through this so many times and I’m too old to keep doing this, this should be my time of life to enjoy not be worrying.

im so sad and I m in turmoil of what to do. Do I give the next 3-6 months to him and see how well he coping and then say if he still using albeit now & then to say to him enough is enough. I pray most days for him to have the strength to say no to this drug to not buy it or use it in our home.

thinking of you all xxx

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