do you know I can relate to all of what you have said. Yes I gave in, gave him money, paid his bills. he would ask for money as he owed money to friends which HAD to be paid, owed to work mates which HAD to be paid. Someone would be after him if he didn’t pay money, he would be in real trouble. Now I wont give anything yes like you I am a dreadful mother (so he says) like you I have been verbally abused, told to f off constantly, called a retard, all sorts. But still I am there for him, I know this is not my son and I grieve for the son I have lost and hope that he will come back one day. I hate the people he hangs about with although I don’t really know them, I do know they have encouraged him to get to this point. I haven’t heard from him for a couple of days and am trying not to contact him but I worry where he is and what he is doing. I so hope this ends soon……
