Im so proud of you sad and tired….The less help you give him (enabling him) the quicker he will come to realise that he cant sustain his life style….We had another visit from police yesterday looking for him….I told them he didnt live here, and they would know that as he was arrested last weekend…Also told them to stop bothering me, and IF they had checked properly they would find him in court Wednesday. Thats another thing that pees me off…I dont want police at my door. Told him and he said it was about a fight afew months ago..not bothered at all!!!! Im under no illusion he definately will do time, whether for breach or something else….Today we sat in the garden briefly and I told him he had to take what was coming. At 23 nearly 24 he has done nothing with his life, BUT, he has the rest of his life to change things..and be the father he should be to his son. Sad and tired, its a long road, and I HOPE that your son will grow out of it…and grow up!!!! I also wish you well , and I may not be a religious person, but I do pray for our lads…stay positive, be strong and WAIT…… Hugs hunni xxx
