Nathan, how very lucky the love of your life was to know such a loving, warm , caring man….your honesty hits the mark, and I applaud you for it….my son has an alcohol problem…his road to sobriety is a tough one..That and the cocktail of drugs…..every day is a battle….only yesterday he succumbed, then in the cold light of day blamed everyone else for wanting to see him fail….so selfish, but then that’s how it works..Nathan, hold onto the love you shared, grieve in your own time, and never apologise for how you feel. As for my son, well, it’s his battle, and only he can do it..I’m the bystander, who cheers him on when he has doubts, stays away when the beer and drugs kicks in…I’m not heartless, but I won’t enable, and I won’t be part of that horrid life he gets sucked into….I was trying to work out how long he has been sober, and it’s since the middle of July…2 relapses…..I hope he conquers his demons..all I want is for him to be happy, not too much to ask is it? Anyway Hunni, I’m sending you a cyber hug, and the belief that there are people who care….luv to you, and here if you want to talk xxxx
