Oh dear sounds like you have had a few years of stress.. I remember speaking to FRANK and have to agree, they were useless…never felt more alone..I too enabled my son, thinking I was helping, but Infact I was adding to his addiction….please please please understand one thing Hunni, it is your son who takes drugs, no one makes him..I use to say the same thing, how niave was i? Until I realised my son was and is responsible for himself…..my son lied, stole, was aggressive and we put up with it for far too long…the day I to,d him to stop contacting me until he was serious about getting help, was the best thing I could have done as his mother..it half killed me not knowing where he was, or what he was doing, but his behaviour was making me ill…..he’s in recovery, and yes he has relapsed afew times but I know nothing I say will change his mind…it really is down to him! Addiction is bloody awful, but many forget about those close to the addict…stay strong,and please stop bailing him out…….hugs xxx
