Hi, Debz….your son sounds like mine did…and fifi is bang on…don’t enable him…that means being firm, and laying ground rules if he’s st home…I’m sure like the rest of us, he is draining you and having an I pact on the fsmily….my son has been in recovery since end of June last year…he has had several relapses and today I took him for extra counselling (an appointment he made because he knew he was struggling)….it may take him a while , but once you stop enabling ,you stop adding to the drug taking…sometimes they have to hit rock bottom before they get help….I constsntly told my son I would be there when he was ready, but to not bother me until that day….bloody heart breaking, and then he called saying he had got a job and started counselling and alcohol n drug help..if they want to stop, then they will with support…..to my friend Fiona, hope all is well, and your son is doing ok….hugs to all xxx
