It’s so sad when someone you love goes into self destruct, my children’s father is in self destruct and it’s heartbreaking to watch and not know how to help. I live with the same problem my partners now on the medication to help him off drink but he’s still drinking, forgetful, angry, abusive, I know that energy you say you are using, trying to keep them alive, it’s heart breaking. Im still looking for a solution and I’ve been looking for 20 years, my children will be fortunate if they spend Xmas 2015 with him. He’s in self destruct. You need to take care of yourself and ask for help from the professionals, I hope things work out for you both
