Hi there. Thank you for your reply. I am really hoping that my outcome will be like yours. We both love each dearly but he really is such a different person when he does it. He doesn’t think it change his personality but it really does and exactly the same as what you said it makes him a very selfish person. I haven’t seen him for about 3 weeks now and I’m moving into my own place mainly just to give my head some peace. I really think he need to go to counsellin but I think he’s too proud to. Can I ask if your partner went to counselling by his own choice or if you had to persuade him to go? Thank you so much. It’s so nice to hear a happy ending as that’s what I would like too and I really want to help him but I know I’ve not been doing that in the correct manner so far.
