Hi, my partner decided to go to counselling, it wasn’t drugs counselling though it was relate, but it did help him to listen to me and the effects his coke use was having on our family. Looking back I think he was ready to change and had started to see that his coke mates weren’t really friends and he wasn’t having the time of his life. Also I had put up with a lot over the years so when I threw him out I really meant it and didn’t plan on taking him back, I put my needs and our daughters needs first and that seemed to bring him to his senses. It’s been a long process and its only now 2 years later that he can admit the extent of his drugs use ( much more than I thought he was using) hope your partner comes to his senses. Coke/ drug users are very good at conning themselves that they’re ok and it’s the other people in their lives that have the problem. Just know that you’re doing the right thing and put your needs first. Best wishes
