[dnanon]

Hi Gil, it sounds like it is verbal abuse caused by alcohol and it’s not acceptable. When he is sober I would be telling him all the vile things he has said and how much stress it is causing you. Does he know he has a problem? Do you think he wants to do something about it? You need to have a serious discussion with him when he is sober. Good luck.

[trainer28]

I agree with the above reply. It sounds like he needs to get help for his drinking and that there are underlying issues. You can support him if you want to but you shouldn’t have to put up with being mentally and verbally abused by him or anybody. Take care

[hox]

It is the behaviour of an alcoholic.

My sister is the same abusive and violent when she is under the influence of drink. But this is the majority of the time. It has been hard to handle over the years and her husband has taken the brunt of it. She cannot remember some of the things she says and does.

Nothing changes until they realise they are an alcoholic and want to do everything not just something about it.

Take care of yourself.

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