That’s not easy thing to do so don’t beat yourself up some times u have no choice. I wish I was strong enough to walk from my son a mothers love is so strong but I’m not strong enough at the moment to let him get on with it u feel guilty but we deserve some happiness and they have to sort their lives out for them self’s. If it’s the right way we just don’t know. It’s so hard isn’t it I hope she sorts herself out and u move on