[drained-and-tired]

Hiya,

No you are defo not the bad person in this, don’t ever feel that way! Your partner is choosing this life. He is choosing to stay out and get high, he is choosing that over you and he’s children. Drug users are selfish and they no how to manipulate situations to help there needs. They play with our emotions and drain any form of happiness and life from us just so that they can get there next fix. I.find coming on here helps me when my emotions get bad. I am going through the exact same as you so don’t feel alone. I’m here to chat xx

[daniiboi]

Hi Thankyou for your reply it’s very comforting knowing I’m not alone! I only come across this forum last night but after reading things I realise it’s a serious problem for a lot of people it’s such a shame. Can I ask are you still in that relationship? If so how are you coping x

[smh1987]

Hi Daniiboi,

I hope you are okay, please do not think anything to do with this is your fault, your partner has choices and they make that choice, I am in the same boat he chose it over me and his children from another relationship, that shows you how powerful it is what you are dealing with, reach out to people on here and YouTube is a great place to understand addictions, also if you look for a guy on here called Danman he is brilliant to talk to as he can give you clarity from an addicts perspective, you have a new born and 6 year old keep all your focus on you and then lovely, do not give any money as it will enable him to do it, Take care of yourself! ❤️ Xx

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