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July 21, 2018 at 3:54 am #4843amethyst2018Participant
Hello,
Where to start…. recently found out my son is doing crack and it’s becoming more and more of a problem I’m doing all I can to help him but I’m so worried it’s not enough! ????
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July 21, 2018 at 9:39 am #100752468Participant
Hi it’s a nightmare as I’m aware and the harest thing is we can’t help them they have to do it them self’s all we can do is be there. I’m so fed up of the stealing and lies it’s all we will get. As a mum I can’t lie u walk away even if I want to sometimes. Does he live with u. I know it’s having an impact on my health
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July 21, 2018 at 9:50 am #10076amethyst2018Participant
He does live with me it’s having an impact on my health too sometimes he says he does want help cause he gets really depressed after but like today he’s saying he’s fine, im Constantly in a state of worry and anxiety and still trying to take care of my other children… I have 3 younger than him
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July 21, 2018 at 11:44 am #100772468Participant
I really know how you feel it’s the lies and stealing I can’t cope with. My other children are all sick if it had it for years two older 1 younger than him. He dominates my life and sometimes I feel I hate him then I love him emotions are all over the place I’m 55 so going through my own changes. I’m talking to more people I find it helps but nothing takes it away I want to walk away but I can’t and yes he in my thoughts constantly and I’m stressed all the time bu try and cover it up which is also stressful. Do u get any help councerling
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July 21, 2018 at 2:08 pm #10079amethyst2018Participant
I don’t at the mo but I’m thinking I will…. have you had any?
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July 21, 2018 at 4:28 pm #100822468Participant
Iv tried a little councerling it helped a bit but I know I need to walk away but I’m not strong enough at the moment it’s worn me down. We are trying to find him his own place but weather that’s the answer I don’t know I wish I new the answer all I know is I’m fed up and wish it would all go away sometimes. Iv seriously thought of moving away our self’s. I couldn’t bear to walk past him on the streets we live in a small town so it would happen
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August 2, 2018 at 3:45 pm #10089nl89Participant
It is so important to get some therapy for yourself.
It’s hard as no matter which friend you speak to, they cant fully understand your day to day pain.
Therapy has helped me learn new behaviours and also deal with the anxiety that comes with it.
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