Husband has been drinking approx 10 cans of lager a day for a good few years now. He no longer works as says his joints are too painful. He complains at everything and is constantly irritable. Everything annoys him. He never wants to go anywhere except his allotment, and as he wants a drink he won’t drive there and expects me to run around. Everyday he’s constantly checking he has enough lager in the fridge. I fo everything it seems. I’ve tried speaking to him, having a go at him. Totally fed up.