[paw_x]

Please – if nothing else, do not blame yourself for someone else’s addiction. You could have went away that weekend or not, YOU did not cause what HE chose to do.

The horrible thing of being a partner of an addict is that no matter what we do, we can’t make them better. We can’t make them choose the right path, we can’t fix their problems, we are powerless. Only he can make the right choices, only he can choose the right friends, only he can get the help he clearly needs – and it’s out there, CA meetings are there for him.

All you can do is look after you and decide if this is something you want to have to put up with. Do you want to be miserable and afraid to even go away for the weekend as he’ll destroy your lives?

I’m not saying he can’t fix this – he can go to meetings, get himself a sponsor, and do all he can to fight this. But you can’t fight it for him and you aren’t under any obligation to stand by while he destroys everything you had. That’s all up to you, you only get one life and you deserve to be happy ❤️ take care of you and focus on what you want x

[stillhoping4change23]

Hello Frahar

go on you tube and watch some narcissist videos then you will understand  what is going on with your man and you will be free.

God bless you

[Lottier]

I’m so sorry to read this and sadly I feel there is so much I can relate to, other threads I have read seem to be so similar in the way they punish those closest to them and almost make it all our fault

 

 

[FrazzlePop24]

You deserve better, I think you should focus on yourself.

He can play the Blame Game with himself

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