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April 21, 2021 at 4:30 pm #22743busbyParticipant
Hi there,
I don’t have much in the way of advice for you here but my heart goes out to you as I know how you feel. It’s very difficult coping with a partners addictions, I’m there in that very same struggle myself right now so I can relate to the emotional roller-coaster it causes. Regarding your car, I would say quite right that he shouldn’t be using it, it’s not fair on you should anything happen so it’s reasonable to protect yourself that way.
I hope your situation gets a bit better, look after yourself ♥
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April 21, 2021 at 8:29 pm #22747danman83Participant
Are you from America? Adderall and kava are really known over there, not really heard people have that stuff in UK.
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April 21, 2021 at 8:36 pm #22748danman83Participant
Anyway, hope u are OK. I’m 4 week clean from cocaine this Monday.
It’s really Hard for partners of an addict when they love them loads, and you seem to understand its a disease and know a bit about it.
Does he really want to quit? He needs to want to for himself. Me personally if he is not putting in the effort to quit all drugs even alcohol, he’s needs to show u he has deleted dealers nums, deleted Facebook and other social media as u can message dealers on there.
Maybe join cocaine anonymous that’s what I have done and I’ve never been so happier in my life.
He needs to prove to you that he really wants to stop.
If not, you need to go your own way, unless u want to put up with it. That’s my honest opinion. Taking your car off him won’t do much, and addicts just lie all the time, anything to get there drugs we will do. Feel free to ask me anything
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