[ka123]

I’m so sorry that you are going through this, I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling for all the lies and deceit. It may be hard to see it now but this may be this best thing for you and your children to move on and heal and be happy as you all deserve, he sounds as though he is a wounded man with some deep rooted issues that only he himself can help, it’s amazing that you stuck by him and tried to help him,you deserve somebody who will be truthful to you ,I know from personal experience the pain of somebody lying and hiding things from you it would make you feel as if you are going mad at times, wishing you and your children all the best xx

[kitty115]

Thank you for your reply. I tried my best to support him….was always there for him..sadly he seemed to want the best of both worlds. He said he loved the family life but he also just couldn’t stop taking the drugs. Even up until we split he always told me that the theft was for £100 of goods and that he didn’t do it. He lied to me for over 2 years and that hurts. But he has chosen his path and sadly it didn’t include recovery and being with us in a family. I ended up in hospital last night, my 10 year old had to call an ambulance. I have a flare up of my crohns disease and was in agony. Its made me realise that my health and my kids are my priority now. I cannot be responsible for him and his choices anymore x

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