Fed up This topic has 2 replies, 2 voices, and was last updated 3 years, 10 months ago by esta. Viewing 1 reply thread Author Posts June 8, 2021 at 6:39 pm #23631 estaParticipant set a time limit in your own head say 3 months and if nothing has changed get out whilst you still have your sanity and freedom June 8, 2021 at 6:58 pm #23634 estaParticipant My story is so similar to yours Previous violent marriage which he rescued me from and was the most amazing man in the universe BUT he hid his cocaine habit then once we got married, it spiralled out of control big time Life was awful I was broken mentally and emotionally do not put yourself through it Walk away and save yourself Author Posts Viewing 1 reply thread You must be logged in to reply to this topic. Log In Username: Password: Keep me signed in Log In