Thank you for posting. I’m very sad to read of the despair you obviously feel. Please contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for the family and friends. May be talking with one of our experienced trained volunteers might help you to be able to make some sense of what’s happening and how you can find a way ahead.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that you get some support for yourself and your daughter.