Bless your heart – that is horrendous.
I think he needs rehab, a proper unit and full time help – he seems to be pretty deep and these CA/AA meetings dont help.
They didnt help my partner, I really dont know what to say, I feel so sad for you, as i know the feeling – the trust, the person you love slowly fades away.
You need to do what you think is best, walking away from someone you love is so hard but in the long run it may be best for you and your daughter.
Addiction is so sad and confusing for the person who isnt addicted, it tears lives apart doesnt it. My partner is going through Anxiety/addiction counselling at the moment he pays 60 per hour and its working.
He tried CA and the group meetings but i think it actually made him worse as they were all using.
Good luck my love xx