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July 31, 2020 at 5:13 pm #18081kel1Participant
Taking drugs in moderation? You mean recreational right! The trouble with this perception is firstly, “doing drugs for enjoyment” there is no enjoyment when you underpin substance misuse, so that line of thinking is destructive! Secondly, recreational use with a powerful substance such as cocaine hardly ever really happens! The problem is as I’m sure you’re aware that one always leads to another, and another and before you know it “boom” an addict is born!
Sounds like you’re living the dream right now, In a flat with two addicts ????. No wonder you’re unhappy, that sounds miserable to me. One year isn’t very long, however you’ve fallen in love with the guy, so the heart wants what it wants! Until he wants help though there’s not much you can do, and besides if you’ve dabbled with him then I’d say you’ve lost a bargaining tool here also, at the very least the moral high ground!
I’m sorry you’ve had it tough with your ex husband, I’m wondering whether or not that contributed to your choice in this man?
Time for healing and decisions for you.
Keep talking and more importantly please consider this as a turning point in your life. If he isn’t willing to get help then get out and focus on you. X
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