[blondie1]

bless ur heart- i really feel for you, im in the same sort of situation, he is the only one that can get off the stuff-it doesnt matter what you say or do- he has to be the one to fight his demons and come back to you and your son after he has done so- fingers crossed for you he does get off trhe stuff! they r the only ones that can ever fully understand the stuff and have to get off it by themselves, i hope he does for yours and your sons sake xxxxxxxxxxxx

[survivor]

Hi. Your story is sad just as mine is / was. I had to walk away and still kept getting dragged back into my now ex’s habbit, the lies & deceit just broke me totaly. Heroin has destroyed my life and I’m not even the user. Keep you & your child safe but take my word for it You will never come first when that disgusting drug is in the equasion. God Bless xxx

[dani]

Hello there, just wanted to tell you that I do know how you feel as I felt like this for so long. I have a very similar situations to yours. I found out of my husbands addiction to heroin when I was 3 months pregnant. We met just an year before and it was like living in paradise. He was so caring and strong. Then we move
to the big city and problems started. I was totally ignorant during my pregnancy, not even knowing how degenerative and addictive the heroin was. 5 years on the struggle continues – I went through all stages starting with denial and anger, then the threats of leaving him, we went to ask for help and he got on Methadone program and Subotext and kept lying to me and his child that one day he will be clean. Finally I realized that all that time my life was around him or his problem. So where was my life? I suggested him to look for help himself and moved on. Now he is in a rehab( 1 year ). Weather it is going to work for him or not I don’t know – but that doesn’t matter now. I have my beautiful child and my life to live. Only the future will show whether he will be part of it or not. the decision is his. I know for myself that I wont be manipulated anymore and live my life in fear or shame. Once when you show respect of yourself then others will see it as well. That might be the answer for you. Sorry if the post is too long or boring but just poured my heart out. Be strong xxx

[sdiggle]

Thats my life every moment its like I wrote that post so what do I do where do I turn im feeling like im going round in circles day after day

[survivor]

Hi sdiggle.
Where you turn depends on what you yourself want & need.
I’m still going round in circles after walking away 2 years ago due to the fact I love my ex but I just cant love his habbit or the damage it has done. I help myself by being honest and trusting in god and hoping some day soon something will change for the better. It helps to talk and just know your not alone in what you are going through xxx

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